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2016年11月22日

愛情下午茶

常和同事談心,也經常會談及有關夫妻感情和婚姻保鮮之類的話題,同事經常調侃我,說很佩服我和老公,結婚很久感情卻還是很好,說我對婚姻和感情的見地可以寫一本書,書名叫做:怎樣將愛情保鮮?其實,沒有像同事說的那樣神道,只不過有些自己的小想法,說出來大家一起交流一下。

愛情到底是什麼?

愛情到底是什麼?我想這會是幾乎所有人都比較模糊的概念。其實,愛情本來也沒有一種準確的定義,是存在於戀人之間的一種甜蜜感覺,讓你每每想到都會不自覺的嘴角上揚,心花怒放。亦或是一種叫做快樂的精靈,凡是遇上他的人,都能保持一種愉悅的心情,就連血液裏都跳動著快樂的音符。或者是一顆種子,種在對的人身上,用心灌溉,細心除蟲,然後就會開出美麗的花朵,收穫幸福的碩果。是一種興奮劑,讓遇到的人都癡癡傻傻,有無限的激情和勇氣去面對所有的挑戰。但是,愛情又會是一劑藥,雖然可以醫病,但是也有著副作用,伴隨著愛情而來的各種茅盾、爭吵、猜疑、傷心等等,這些都是愛情本身的副作用。但是這並不影響人們去追求愛,崇尚愛。不然從古至今,就不會有諸多文人墨客的那些描寫愛情的精美詩句了。而且我認為,沒有愛情的人生不是完美的人生。沒有愛的生活,不是真正的生活。

愛情有沒有保鮮期?

愛情有沒有保鮮期?如果有,是多久?我認為,愛情可能就其本身來講,會有他的壽命,但是當他漸漸失去其原有的芬芳,不是悲涼的死去,而是快樂的昇華,昇華為一種親情。有人說,轉化成親情意味著愛情的死亡。我不贊同。就像一個大家都熟知的比喻,當愛情演變成親情,戀人和你變成左右手的關係,是愛情的至高點。因為,無論是哪只手,都需要另一只的陪伴,缺了哪一只,身體都不再完整,你能說他不重要麼?所以,愛情,永遠都是保鮮期。想起我的一位老師說過的一句話,他說,用詩心觀萬物,萬物皆為詩。所以,我想說,你希望你的愛情保鮮期是多久,那麼他就是多久。  


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2016年10月01日

How Can I Transform Tragedy?

There is only one place where tragedy occurs, and that is in the mind. Tragedy may appear to you on the physical level, however, it is the enormous power of your mind that creates the pain and separation you feel, from Love, from God, from Life itself when you listen to what your egoic thoughts are telling you, rather than listen to the voice nu skin 香港 of pure love, which can ONLY come from God, Holy Spirit, Divine Source.

Let me give you an analogy that Barbara Rose actually went through as a perceived "tragedy" so that you can better relate to the concepts given to you here.:

Barbara had a former husband that filed lies with a court to gain primary custody of their shared children, to avoid child support obligations that he had previously been sentenced to jail for twice before.

Barbara did not have money for an attorney, and experienced (on the ego and nu skin 香港 personality level) the injustice in the American justice system: i.e.; if you don't have money for legal representation, then you have pretty much lost before you even have a chance to "win."

Barbara on the ego and personality level experienced "severe and tragic loss" in "what she interpreted to be "losing her children." She nearly took her own life over the injustice she perceived.

It was during many writings, and one in particular, that she received the words of God in her writings, which were: "You did NOT "lose" your children, you are merely sharing for the physical care for them with their father. You are still their mother, and always will be in this lifetime. You can see them, and be very active in their lives, so please understand that this was not a "punishment" or a "tragedy" this was a soul agreement, because you have other work to do nuskin in this life, while you are still a mother."

Even if a person "dies" in physical life, they are NOT "dead" at all. They are vibrant and alive on the other side, and often visit loved ones in the physical realm, even if the person in a physical body cannot see their loved one. In MANY cases, the person that "died" is so much HAPPIER and MORE ALIVE on the other side, than they were in their physical life. It is the ego's attachment that causes suffering. Pure Love would say: "I love you, and I know that your soul, spirit, and Life cannot ever be extinguished, so I will see you after this life again, and I will always love you."  


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2016年07月13日

8 Fabulous Benefits of Eating Papaya

1. Keeps your immune system healthy
Papaya is one of the best sources of vitamin C – it contains over 200% of your daily requirement. Vitamin C is essential for a strong immune system, a healthy and young skin and a high energy. Vitamin C is also believed to prevent heart disease, stroke, diabetes and some types of cancer. Incorporating more vitamin C rich foods like papaya into your meals helps to keep your immune system healthy all year long.

2. Keeps your eyes healthy
Carrot is not the only source of vitamin A. Papaya contains Vitamin A and flavonoids such as zeaxanthin, beta-carotene, lutein and cyptoxanthin, which help to protect the mucus membranes and prevent age-related macular degeneration. If you spend too much time in front of your computer, try drinking carrot and papaya smoothie to keep your eyes healthy.

3. Keeps cancer risk away
Due to its high antioxidant content, papaya may help to reduce your risk of developing cancer. Flavonoids and phytonutrients found in papaya keep free radicals at bay and your cells healthy. Studies show eating papaya regularly may help you prevent colon cancer and reduce prostate cancer risk. Sounds like a good reason to add some papaya to your salad or fruit pie, isn’t it?

4. Keeps your skin healthy and young
No one can avoid aging, but we can avoid premature aging by eating healthy food each day. Papaya has great anti-aging properties. It’s an excellent source of vitamin E, vitamin C, and beta-carotene that fight wrinkles, prevent skin damage and overall keep your skin healthy and young.

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5. Good for your digestive system
Papaya is known for its digestive properties too. The fruit supplies papain, an enzyme that keeps your digestion healthy. Add a serving of papaya to your breakfast, snack on it or use it in your evening smoothie to increase your metabolism and improve your digestion.

6. Helps to boost hair growth
Papaya helps to soften the hair, keep the hair’s natural sheen, prevent dandruff and boost hair growth. Have a papaya smoothie for breakfast or lunch or make a papaya hair mask to improve your hair health. Mix 1/2 cup of plain yogurt and 1 skinned papaya, apply it to your hair, and rinse it off after 40-45 minutes. I use this mask twice a week to make my dry hair look more beautiful.

7. Helps to reduce menstrual pain
While papaya is not the best remedy for menstrual cramps, it can ease the pain and make you feel better in a matter of minutes. Papain enzyme found in papaya helps to promote regular flow of menstruation and relieve cramps. Give it a try! Who knows, maybe it will help you.

8. It’s a good weight loss fruit
Eating papaya won’t make you look slimmer, if you don’t stick to a healthy diet and don’t work out regularly. However, this fruit can help you combat your cravings and feel fuller longer. Papaya is a good addition to any healthy snack, such as yogurt or salad, though a bowl full of ripe papaya makes a diet-friendly snack as well. Papaya is low in sugar and calories – one cup contains around 120 calories and 8.3 gm of sugar.

Papaya is a versatile fruit. You can use it in your salads, fruit pies, fruit-topped cakes, smoothies, juices, salsa, make your own papaya chips, or eat it raw (just be sure it’s ripe!) Papaya has a great number of health benefits. These eight are among the best ones. What’s your favorite way to eat papaya? How often do you eat this fruit?

  


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2016年06月06日

Are Herbal Remedies The Answer?

It seems that almost every day we come across a story in a newspaper or magazine which raises concerns about the use, misuse, or overuse of a particular pharmaceutical remedy in the treatment of Health Cabin Coupon minor ailments, or serious medical conditions. Often these stories are quickly discredited as being ill-informed or based on insufficient evidence, perhaps medical opinion is divided, or particular experts in the field prefer to wait for an extended period of time, maybe years, in order to ascertain the safety, or otherwise of these commonly used remedies. This is not to criticise medical science, or its practitioners, who must rely on objective and statistically valid evidence before giving an expert opinion. However, it is little wonder that many of us turn to herbal remedies, either as a supplement, or as an alternative to manufactured pharmaceutical products. There is a reassurance in that simple word "herbal", taking us back to simpler times, when there was little choice in how to treat our day to day bodily malfunctions, aches and pains and we made use of what was available to us, perhaps in our own back gardens!

Are herbal remedies the answer? Surely if they have been in use since men and women first walked on the Earth they must be both effective and safe? The answer to this, as to many questions, is "Yes" and "No", or even "Well it's not as simple as that." In the past, herbal remedies were often administered or recommended by one particular person in the neighbourhood, frequently a woman, (probably regarded as a witch), who was an expert in her Production Diploma field. This person would have studied and learned, by trial and error, about the efficacy and safety (or otherwise) of the product she was supplying. Herbal remedies may be natural, but that does not make them safe and we need to be well informed about the optimum dosage as well as about possible side effects and what are called "contra-indications" in the medical profession. After all, before a doctor prescribes a drug to you, s/he will refer to your medical history and question you about your lifestyle. We need to be equally cautious in self-prescribing, and take advantage of information and advice that is available to us from reliable sources.

Should herbal remedies be regarded as an alternative, or a complementary supplement to conventional medicine? We need to use our common sense in this matter. If a herbal product appears to be effective in treating a minor condition, then by all means use it instead of resorting to a manufactured product, with possibly dubious side effects. As regards more serious and even life threatening conditions, it seems unwise to reject the offerings of modern science, which for the most part have a proven record in alleviating suffering and prolonging life, whether or not they also cause undesirable side-effects. Herbal remedies may in these cases be used in a complementary way, if this is appropriate. Let us also not forget that many widely used conventional medications are based on a herbal product, (aspirin and digitalis to name just two), so Skin Care System we may be using a herbal based product without being aware of it. Herbal and conventional pharmaceutical remedies are not always mutually exclusive.
  


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2016年05月09日

6 Things Only Girls Who Hate Dressing Up Understand

1. You don’t have the time.
Dressing up is hard work. You have to do your hair, yoga put on makeup and figure out what the heck you’re going to wear, and it usually involves uncomfortable footwear. You prefer to dress for the entire day; wearing an outfit that can easily transition from daywear to nightwear. You like to keep your morning routine simple. You usually shower and throw on a pair of workout leggings and a comfy T-shirt. You usually don’t even bother with your contacts. Wearing your chic eyeglasses is so much easier.

2. You’d rather just stay in and watch Netflix if you know that going out means wearing high heels.
High heels look great but they wreak havoc on your feet all night long. How can you enjoy yourself when you’re wincing in pain with every step? You marvel at the girls walking confidently in their heels and secretly think that they must have some kind of superpower to be able to walk like that while strapped into those pain machines all night.

3. Figuring out what shoes to wear with an outfit is actually really really hard.
You don’t want to clash but you don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard, and you still want to be comfy. Rather than deal with the struggle, you just slip on the Birkenstocks that you’ve worn for the past six years that go with everything and move on with your day.

4. You love simplicity.
You don’t really own or wear that many accessories or the accessories you do own are basically stashed away and collecting dust. You usually wear a few sentimental pieces of jewelry 90% of the time and only touch your other pieces when you’re feeling particularly adventurous. More often than not, the eyeglasses you own tend to be your only accessory. The good thing is, if you remember any episode of America’s Next Top Model, over-accessorizing is seo service

white noise for one’s look. Keep your pallet simple, and let your self be the star, not your bangles.

5. You basically live in your yoga pants.
Yoga pants are mankind’s greatest invention. They’re super comfy, stretchy and don’t dig into your skin like jeans do. Yoga pants are perfect for everything: running errands, doing laundry, going to class, hanging out with friends, working out, or just vegging on the couch and watching Netflix. It’s guaranteed you’ll be perfectly comfortable all day long in your yoga pants.

6. When you do dress up, you feel really awkward.
You’re so used to wearing comfy clothes that when you finally have an obligation to dress up, you feel really weird. But also, you really dig it. You’re reveling in the compliments. “I should do this more often,” you think. But then when you remember how much work it was to get ready, it immediately gives you a headache. You’ll just stick to your usual low-key style.

Girls who hate dressing up don’t like to hide behind clothes and makeup. We like to be genuine and be ourselves all the time. So keep rocking that low-key style and remember that our comfy DR REBORN
fashion shows that we’re comfortable with ourselves and are laid-back but still confident and fun.

  


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